If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it's okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself "does my ex want to get back with me"?
These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.
Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets. If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.
Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.
This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?", but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.
Magic Of Making Up
Monday, April 5, 2010
In Case of Relationship Emergency - Don't Call 911
by T Dub Jackson, author of The Magic Of Making Up System
You smell the smoke, hear the crackle of a flame and start to swoon from the searing heat.
and...You suspect there's about to be a raging fire. But the fire and carnage you fear won't be from
any material possessions lost, but from something much more precious, a once loving relationship going up in flames.
No matter what issue set your fire ablaze, many of us don't know where or how to begin applying
the water to put the fire out. In fact...Unlike a real fire where a fireman first looks to
find, attack and cool the source of the fire (if possible).
Many times attacking the center of the heat is the WRONG approach to take when trying to extinguish our relationship problems and fires. For example, let's imagine that since this 'recession'
your relationship has flamed up some worrisome financial fires. Not too hard to imagine these days?
These may start as little brush fires, small issues and arguments over how and where money is being spent...or not spent.
Then, maybe because of the heat and pressure of these financial fires one partner starts 'escaping' more than
is healthy for the relationship. He escapes into TV, Video Games, Alcohol, Cyber Porn...or worse?
Now...what do we have?
We've got two fires smoldering away and soon to be a third because the other partner is starting to feel lonely and isolated. Can you almost feel the pressure? Feel it coming to a boil?
Now with three fires off to a crackling start there's even greater risk of fire and damage spreading to other areas. So? Just which fire do we put out first?
Our financial fire? Our financial blaze seems pretty tough to extinguish right now and not likely to die soon.
So maybe we should start with the escapism? That seems like an easy fire to put out...IF you're not the one escaping!
...and try telling someone that's feeling lonely and isolated that "they should just snap out of it" is like throwing fuel into the fire.
So where do we begin when we don't see any good place to start? And we finally realize that
trying to stomp out all our blazes at once actually spreads the fire?...FASTER!
The answer is... Unlike fighting a REAL fire, we start where there IS NO FIRE.
Yes, start where there is absolutely no smoke, no heat and no flame.
What we need to do is stop focusing on the problem(s) and focus on where we still have passion...even if
it's just a little.
Find even the tiniest things you both enjoy doing together, ACTIVELY put your problems aside and begin to
rebuild the passion between you.
And do you know what invariably happens? Often once you've rekindled the passion between you...the PROBLEMS will often work themselves out.
The fires extinguish themselves. Here's how it may play out using our example;
Tom and Cindy both love cooking together. They both actively decide to let their problems
go and NOT worry about them for awhile, but to start by cooking dinner together and EATING together at
the dinner table...EVERY night.
Often because they've had such a great time cooking and eating together...they play some cards or monopoly
afterwards and share some laughs and have a little fun.
Now, because Cindy isn't feeling so isolated because Tom's always watching TV or surfing the web...
That little bit of fun turns into love making a little more often.
Which in part...leads to... Tom starting to feel better, finds new confidence, and as his confidence builds... Tom gets more assertive about finding work.
Soon...
Tom lands what maybe not the best job in the world, but one that relieves a lot of the financial pressure until he can find his perfect fit.
And before your very eyes...
Where Tom and Cindy's relationship was about to burst into flames...
Now, they are rising from the rubble with a stronger and more fire proof marriage than ever before.
The moral of the story is that with enough PASSION couples can overcome most any problem including affairs, drug use, even death in the family.
But when there is very little passion even the tiniest problems...become big, out of control, blazing fires.
Now if you're reading this, but feel that an out of control fire has already 'gutted' and put an end to your
relationship. You may find it comforting to know that there may be a second chance for you?
I've made some amazing new breakthroughs in the human love, bonding and REBONDING process.
Many of these breakthroughs are just as counterintuitive as the technique I've just handed you here.
I've made a special video with you in mind where I share one of my counterintuitive rebonding techniques.
You're invited to watch here:
HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK VIDEO
While I'm a little bumbly and no Brad Pitt on camera...
...the video has been watched over 893,000 times (rated 4 1/2 stars) and it's rare for a day to go by where I don't receive a really heart warming note from someone that has put their relationship back
together after going through hell and fearing they'd never find their way back.
Hope it helps you too:-)
T Dub Jackson
MagicOfMakingUp.com
You smell the smoke, hear the crackle of a flame and start to swoon from the searing heat.
and...You suspect there's about to be a raging fire. But the fire and carnage you fear won't be from
any material possessions lost, but from something much more precious, a once loving relationship going up in flames.
No matter what issue set your fire ablaze, many of us don't know where or how to begin applying
the water to put the fire out. In fact...Unlike a real fire where a fireman first looks to
find, attack and cool the source of the fire (if possible).
Many times attacking the center of the heat is the WRONG approach to take when trying to extinguish our relationship problems and fires. For example, let's imagine that since this 'recession'
your relationship has flamed up some worrisome financial fires. Not too hard to imagine these days?
These may start as little brush fires, small issues and arguments over how and where money is being spent...or not spent.
Then, maybe because of the heat and pressure of these financial fires one partner starts 'escaping' more than
is healthy for the relationship. He escapes into TV, Video Games, Alcohol, Cyber Porn...or worse?
Now...what do we have?
We've got two fires smoldering away and soon to be a third because the other partner is starting to feel lonely and isolated. Can you almost feel the pressure? Feel it coming to a boil?
Now with three fires off to a crackling start there's even greater risk of fire and damage spreading to other areas. So? Just which fire do we put out first?
Our financial fire? Our financial blaze seems pretty tough to extinguish right now and not likely to die soon.
So maybe we should start with the escapism? That seems like an easy fire to put out...IF you're not the one escaping!
...and try telling someone that's feeling lonely and isolated that "they should just snap out of it" is like throwing fuel into the fire.
So where do we begin when we don't see any good place to start? And we finally realize that
trying to stomp out all our blazes at once actually spreads the fire?...FASTER!
The answer is... Unlike fighting a REAL fire, we start where there IS NO FIRE.
Yes, start where there is absolutely no smoke, no heat and no flame.
What we need to do is stop focusing on the problem(s) and focus on where we still have passion...even if
it's just a little.
Find even the tiniest things you both enjoy doing together, ACTIVELY put your problems aside and begin to
rebuild the passion between you.
And do you know what invariably happens? Often once you've rekindled the passion between you...the PROBLEMS will often work themselves out.
The fires extinguish themselves. Here's how it may play out using our example;
Tom and Cindy both love cooking together. They both actively decide to let their problems
go and NOT worry about them for awhile, but to start by cooking dinner together and EATING together at
the dinner table...EVERY night.
Often because they've had such a great time cooking and eating together...they play some cards or monopoly
afterwards and share some laughs and have a little fun.
Now, because Cindy isn't feeling so isolated because Tom's always watching TV or surfing the web...
That little bit of fun turns into love making a little more often.
Which in part...leads to... Tom starting to feel better, finds new confidence, and as his confidence builds... Tom gets more assertive about finding work.
Soon...
Tom lands what maybe not the best job in the world, but one that relieves a lot of the financial pressure until he can find his perfect fit.
And before your very eyes...
Where Tom and Cindy's relationship was about to burst into flames...
Now, they are rising from the rubble with a stronger and more fire proof marriage than ever before.
The moral of the story is that with enough PASSION couples can overcome most any problem including affairs, drug use, even death in the family.
But when there is very little passion even the tiniest problems...become big, out of control, blazing fires.
Now if you're reading this, but feel that an out of control fire has already 'gutted' and put an end to your
relationship. You may find it comforting to know that there may be a second chance for you?
I've made some amazing new breakthroughs in the human love, bonding and REBONDING process.
Many of these breakthroughs are just as counterintuitive as the technique I've just handed you here.
I've made a special video with you in mind where I share one of my counterintuitive rebonding techniques.
You're invited to watch here:
HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK VIDEO
While I'm a little bumbly and no Brad Pitt on camera...
...the video has been watched over 893,000 times (rated 4 1/2 stars) and it's rare for a day to go by where I don't receive a really heart warming note from someone that has put their relationship back
together after going through hell and fearing they'd never find their way back.
Hope it helps you too:-)
T Dub Jackson
MagicOfMakingUp.com
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Back Together...
Guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I took your advice and my ex- boyfriend and I are back together again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And thanks 4 the advice AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Adrian
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Talking Like Friends Again!
I have just downloaded the materials from the website. I am eager to read and learn.
I ALREADY HAVE WONDERFUL NEWS!!
Just from the video via your website, before attaining the reading materials, I
talked with my ex yesterday for 40 MINUTES!! It has been months since we have
talked that long like friends. He even hinted around that we could have a
future together. MY ATTITUDE WAS DIFFERENT!! I WAS FRIENDLY AND ACTED LIKE THE
BREAKUP IS OK!!
Thanks for the free advice and I can't wait to get to reading!!
I'll keep in touch.
Tiffany
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I ALREADY HAVE WONDERFUL NEWS!!
Just from the video via your website, before attaining the reading materials, I
talked with my ex yesterday for 40 MINUTES!! It has been months since we have
talked that long like friends. He even hinted around that we could have a
future together. MY ATTITUDE WAS DIFFERENT!! I WAS FRIENDLY AND ACTED LIKE THE
BREAKUP IS OK!!
Thanks for the free advice and I can't wait to get to reading!!
I'll keep in touch.
Tiffany
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"On her hands and knees"
well it tool some time but i got my girl back. she pretty [much] got down on her hands and knees coming back to me thanks buddy.
Rob
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"Impossible Not To Work"
Just wanted to let you know your advice is so rational and so sound... At such a horrible and tough time it is reassuring to read the correct way to handle yourself and go about respecting someone's wishes (a breakup) but at the same time try to get them back. A lot of people don't realize how simple and easy it is, patience is a virtue and because of you ... I am now dating the love of my life again, we were together for 4 years, split for only 2 1/2 months and are now back together. I did what you... told me was the ONLY option and it worked. If it is true love and meant to be, your advice is impossible not to work. Thanks for the guidance. You're a good man!
CC
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CC
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I am beside myself that something actually came of this...
I was SO skeptical putting in $39 to an e-book. I was positive it would be a waste of money, and there wouldn't even be a book as promised.
PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES.
I was beside myself.
Thank you so much...
Sara
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PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES.
I was beside myself.
Thank you so much...
Sara
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